i want to forget

“a lie never turns out to be anything good, because if you lie it always turns around to bite you in the butt. you might think its gonna turn out good, but it just takes a sudden turn and come right back at you. even a little white lie can turn out to be the biggest lie u ever told. when 2 people are involved in a relationship and you tell the least little lie it could ruin your relationship forever. the person might not be able to trust you ever again. and if u really like that person it could be the biggest mistake of your life. so my advice is to crush the thought of even telling a little white lie.”

undeniable

Even though neither of us knows what the future holds, I know one thing for sure; you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.

take a chance

when it comes to relationships, people are always so scared of the what-if’s that they forget what-is. they spend so much time thinking, “what if i get hurt?” & “what if it doesn’t work out?” that they stop thinking about things that are already real. they forget the feeling they get when the person they love walks into the room & the excitment that rushes through them when the phone rings cause it might be the person they are waiting to hear from. never let the fear of what-if stop you from letting yourself take a chance on love .. because what if this is the person you’re destined to spend the rest of your life with?

that’s how it is

You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before.
Like a switch has been flicked somewhere.
And the person who was just a friend is suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.

Protected: many a times’

Protected: i can’t get rid of them

Protected: i can’t find the words to say

Ode to Nice Girls v.2

This is a tribute to the nice girls. These are the girls who are safe. The girls whom guys who have girlfriends are allowed to hang out with because they’re not viewed as a threat. These are the girls who dress respectably . . . they don’t go and get “skank clothes” and parade themselves around, catching the attention of every drooling, testosterone-filled boy on earth. These are the girls who are okay with going to chick-fil-a on a date, hanging out, watching a movie, playing a game, or doing some other low-cost, high-fun form of entertainment. Because after all, it’s really about the quality time that they spend with the guy and not the amount of money that is flowing from his pockets in order to please her every whim and desire (or so he thinks) during the date.

This is in honor of the girls who take the time to ask their guy friends “how’s life?” and to listen carefully when the answer is given. The girls who go out of their way to make cookies or cheer up male friends in distress. Yeah, we know “men are from Mars” and “women are from Venus,” but a simple “thank you” is pretty darn universal.

This goes out to the girls who must sit complacently while their guy friends discuss the “hotness” of the girl at the next table over. They watch as these guys date or lust over each and every self-centered, trashy, insecure, flirtatious, and flighty girl they come into contact with.

When asked, most guys say they would like to date a nice girl. However, when faced with such an opportunity, they claim that “I love her . . .like a little sister” or “there are no such things as nice girls. They’re all evil.” These guys continue to complain about how all girls are “manipulative” and “gossipy” and wonder why in the world they all go to the bathroom at the same time.

But, we must confess, there are guys out there who realize the value of their nice friends who are girls. These are the guys who should be praised for their willingness to go with the flow, hang out, and chill. These guys, however, fail to consider these nice girls as anything more than friends or to step up to the plate and consider them for a Saturday night date or the upcoming dance even though they possess all the qualities that guys claim they are looking for. But, a note to the nice girls. Eventually all guys will (or at least should) realize that they don’t want to have a relationship with a girl who wants all of their money and who will only date them until a guy who is better or more enhancing for her social status comes along. So, until those guys realize what is right in front of them, a word of encouragement to the nice girls. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of being treated like a doormat. In all honesty, you are valuable. Clearly, you possess qualities that cause your guy friends to want to hang out with you. The world needs your encouragement, your willingness to take part in spontaneous activities, your ability to continue to enjoy life even though you watch as countless nasty, malicious female sirens blind the nice guys with their alluring ways. For all of the random, frustrating, and seemingly non-sensical things you tolerate, don’t lose hope. Nice guys do exist and will someday realize that nice girls, who are not evil, exist as well. Fear not, your day will come. And perhaps your prince will too.

via jagszone

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shared the tribute to nice girls v.1 on facebook. just take a min to read it. also there’s the tribute to nice guys =)

Protected: autre chance svp ?

perseverance

You can’t go through life quitting everything. If you’re going to achieve anything, you’ve got to stick with something.

~ Family Matters